Share Your Wife With Others And Make Her A Swinger

Every man has his own fantasies and fetishes. One of them is to have a swinging wife or girlfriend. While some individuals do not find this to be appealing, some people actually believe that swinging can make their sex lives become more exciting and make the relationship better.  If you are one of these men who like to make your female partner a swinger, below are some tips on how you can share your wife with others.  If She Does Not Like The IdeaIt is possible that your wife will reject your swinging idea, but there is a right approach in persuading her.  Do not feel upset or even angry with her if she gave you a negative reaction when you brought up the idea.  Pressuring her to do it might only put your relationship in danger. Remember that the relationship is more important than your desire to achieve your fantasy. Determine Why You Like To SwingBefore you actually bring up the topic, it is important that you first establish your reason for wanting your wife to be a swinger. It may probably because you do not find her attractive anymore. Perhaps you also just want her to swing in order to experience something new in your sex life.  Understand Why She DisapprovesKeep in mind that every person may have a different understanding or belief about swinging.  Therefore, try to reconcile your goals and your wife's apprehensions about this idea. It could be that she is afraid or worried that the relationship might be broken once another man steps into the bed with the two of you.  Take Away Her FearsFear is the topmost cause or reason why a woman may think this idea is crazy. Affirm her by telling her that your love for her will remain the same. Tell her that you simply want her to swing in order to give both of you a different experience. Nonetheless, you should also have an agreement with your wife that it is only for the sake of the thrill, with no feelings involved for the man whom you will share your wife with. It can also be possible that her feelings might get involved and that will cause the problem in your relationship. Meet Other People Who Have Tried ItYou and your wife can look for other people who have already tried swinging. Socialize and interact with them so that you will both gain more insights about what swinging is. Perhaps, if she hears about the fun and exciting stories of other swinger wives, she would have a change of mind and agree with you. Couples who tried swinging successfully can attest that the act made them closer to one another. Success stories of these couples can inspire and motivate your wife to give it a try. Let Her Do The PickingWomen like to feel they are in control. Perhaps, another thing that can persuade her is when you tell her that she will be the one to select a probable partner. Never try to be aggressive on her or manipulate her in any way because this will only cause her to be more reserved.